Quotes about some of the people I miss dearly

whether they have passed on, or we just aren’t as close….I miss them…so very much…

“When King Lear dies in Act V, do you know what Shakespeare has written? He’s written ‘He dies.’ That’s all, nothing more. No fanfare, no metaphor, no brilliant final words. The culmination of the most influential work of dramatic literature is ‘He dies.’ It takes Shakespeare, a genius, to come up with ‘He dies.’ And yet every time I read those two words, I find myself overwhelmed with dysphoria. And I know it’s only natural to be sad, but not because of the words ‘He dies.’, but because of the life we saw prior to the words.
I’ve lived all five of my acts, Mahoney, and I am not asking you to be happy that I must go. I’m only asking that you turn the page, continue reading… and let the next story begin. And if anyone asks what became of me, you relate my life in all its wonder, and end it with a simple and modest, ‘He died’.”
~Mr. Edward Magorium (Dustin Hoffman) in the movie “Mr. Magorium’s Wonder Emporium”

“Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world,
which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling into at night. I miss you like hell.”
~Edna St. Vincent Millay

“Sometimes the people we meet change us forever.  I’ve never forgotten Sarah and I’m pretty sure I never will.
Wherever she is…I really hope she’s happy.”
~from the movie “Forces of Nature”

However far away, I will always love you
However long I stay, I will always love you
Whatever words I say, I will always love you
I will always love you
~“Love Song” by The Cure

“The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others
how much they love them while they’re still alive.”
~O.A. Battista

“olive juice too”
~the final words said to me by my beautiful friend, Crystal Rosella Young
(August 23, 1976 – February 21, 2009)

“It has been said, ‘time heals all wounds.’ I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting it’s sanity, covers them with scar tissue, and the pain lessens. But, it is never gone.” -Rose Kennedy

And…..
“………..you can see a whole lot more pieces of the puzzle after that puzzle falls apart. I guess you never stop wrestling with demons.” ~me. Real life me. I said that. One day when I was thinking about the clusterfuck awfulness that was my divorce. What I did wrong. I had already focused, as one does in these situations, too much on what she had done wrong. It was time to learn about me.
That was a very introspective evening for me. I learned a lot that night.

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Quotes about what I think about God

Of course God is endlessly multi-dimensional so every religion that exists on earth
represents some face, some side of God.
~Nobel Prize-winning Russian author Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn
December 11, 1918 – August 4, 2008

“The tendency to claim God as an ally for our partisan values and ends is…the source of all religious fanaticism.”
~Reinhold Niebuhr, American clergyman and author (1892-1971)

“Measure not men by Sundays, without regarding what they do all the week after.”
~Thomas Fuller

“To know what you prefer instead of humbly saying Amen to what the world tells you you ought to prefer, is to have kept your soul alive.”
~Robert Louis Stevenson

“Fix reason firmly in her seat, and call to her tribunal every fact, every opinion.  Question with boldness even the existence of a God; because, if there be one, He must more approve of the homage of reason, than that of blindfolded fear.”
~Thomas Jefferson

To wish to act like angels while we are still in this world is nothing but folly.
~St. Teresa of Avila

‘‘Human beings are perhaps never more frightening than when they are convinced beyond doubt that they are right.’’
~Sir Laurens van der Post, South African author (1906-1996)

You can safely assume you’ve created God in your own image when it turns out that He hates all the same people you do.
~Anne Lamott

There are two ways to slide easily through life:
to believe everything or to doubt everything.
Both ways save us from thinking.
~Alfred Korzybski (1879-1950) American semanticist

“I would rather believe that God did not exist than that He was indifferent.’’
~George Sand, French author (1804-1876

“Tell me all your thoughts on God, cuz I’m on my way to see Her.”
~from the song “Counting Blue Cars”

And how I currently feel about God, because spirituality is nothing if not fluid and full of questions and doubts, at least mine is anyway:
“The Almighty and I have a challenging past. We’re not actually speaking these days.” ~Vanessa Ives, from the show Penny Dreadful

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Quotes giving some all around good words of wisdom

“Don’t worry that children never listen to you.
Worry that they are always watching you.”
~Robert Fulghum

“Be kind.  Remember every one you meet is fighting a battle—everybody’s lonesome.”
~Marion Parker

“We all go a little mad sometimes.”
~Anthony Perkins as Norman Bates in “Psycho”

“Never underestimate the power of denial.”
~From the movie “American Beauty”

“Life is too short to be pissed off all the time.”
from the movie American History X

There’s an important difference between giving up and letting go.
~Jessica Hatchigan

Never confuse a single defeat with a final defeat.
~F. Scott Fitzgerald

A wonderful realization will be the day you realize that you are unique in all the world. There is nothing that is an accident. You are a special combination for a purpose and don’t let them tell you otherwise, even if they tell you that purpose is an illusion. You are that combination so that you can do what is essential for you to do.
Don’t ever believe that you have nothing to contribute. The world is an incredible unfulfilled tapestry.
And only you can fulfill that tiny space that is yours.
~Leo Buscaglia, psychologist, author

“Painful as it may be, a significant emotional event can be
the catalyst for choosing a direction that serves us –
and those around us—more effectively. Look for the learning.”
~Eric Allenbaugh

The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late,
is that the more you try to avoid suffering the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt.
~Thomas Merton

“If you’re never scared or embarrassed or hurt,
it means you never take any chances.”
~Julia Sorel, actress

“Beware the fury of a patient man.”
~John Dryden

Hello babies, welcome to earth. It’s hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It’s round, and wet, and crowded. At the outset babies, you’ve got about a 100 years here. There’s only one rule that I know of babies – Damn it, you’ve got to be kind. There’s only one rule: you’ve got to be kind.
~Kurt Vonnegut, from “God Bless you Mr. Rosewater”

Let’s diffuse one myth right now. Nobody “falls” in love. Nope, we see it right there in front of us. Though it’s just a puddle, we back up, take a running start and execute a triple-and-a-half gainer headfirst right into it. Admit it. You didn’t fall. You dove and got hurt. Otherwise you’d be suing the hell out of somebody.

“Sometimes the appropriate response to reality is to go insane.”
~Philip K. Dick, author of such books as Minority Report and A Scanner Darkly

“Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time.
Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it.”
~Dr. M. Scott Peck

“Don’t try to solve serious matters in the middle of the night.”
~Philip K. Dick

“The little things? The little moments? They aren’t little.”
~Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn, meditation teacher, author, and researcher

“ ‘Hope’ is the feeling you have, that the feeling you have isn’t permanent.”
~author Jean Kerr

“Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass on a summer day listening to the murmur of water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is hardly a waste of time.”
~Sir John Lubbock

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