When Tomorrow Starts Without Me

(Crystal’s mommy was kind enough to ask me to read this at Crystal’s memorial…..)

When tomorrow starts without me,
And I’m not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes,
All filled with tears for me.

I wish so much you wouldn’t cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things
We didn’t get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you’ll miss me too.

But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name
and took me by the hand.

The angel said my place was ready,
In Heaven so far above
And that I’d have to leave behind
All those I so dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye,
For all my life I always thought,
I didn’t want to die.

I had so much to live for,
So much yet to do.
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.

But when I walked through Heavens’ gates,
I felt so much at home,
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From his great golden throne.

He said “This is eternity
And all I’ve promised you.”
Today for life on each is past
But here it starts anew.

I Promise no tomorrow’s,
But today will always last,
And since each days the same day,
There’s no longing for the past.

But you have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true.
Thought there were times you did some things
You knew you shouldn’t do.

But you have been forgiven,
And now at last you’re free,
So won’t you take my hand,
And share my life with Me?

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don’t think we’re far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I’m right here in your HEART!

Posted in In memoriam, Parables, Stories and Excerpts I Wish I Had Written | Tagged , , , | 2 Comments

If Children Live With….

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.

If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.

If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.

If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.

If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.

If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.

If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.

If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.

If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.

If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.

If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.

If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.

If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.

If children live with fairness, they learn justice.

If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.

If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.

If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

~Dorothy Law Nolte
January 12, 1924 – November 13, 2005

Posted in Parables, Stories and Excerpts I Wish I Had Written | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

The Starfish Story

I first heard this story from a friend of mine that I went to Guatemala with in February 2008. He lived there for 17 months before my visit and it was his first trip back. It was my first trip ever. What I saw there was unimaginable! There are pictures of it in a photo album on Facebook titled “Humanitarian Trip to Guatemala” (though I left 3-4 really sad pictures out).
So…….I came back from there just wanting to fix *everything*. Fix everything, make everything better, take all the little kids I saw with Spina Bifida, adopt them all, give money to all the families….you know, fix everything.
Then my friend told me this story. :’^)

Ya can’t fix it all, you can’t do it all, but you can do something.
Maybe you can’t throw all the thousands of starfish back, but you can throw back a helluva lot over a lifetime…..

The Starfish Story
adapted from The Star Thrower
by Loren Eiseley (1907 – 1977)

Once upon a time, there was a wise man who used to go to the ocean to do his writing. He had a habit of walking on the beach before he began his work.

One day, as he was walking along the shore, he looked down the beach and saw a human figure moving like a dancer. He smiled to himself at the thought of someone who would dance to the day, and so, he walked faster to catch up.

As he got closer, he noticed that the figure was that of a young man, and that what he was doing was not dancing at all. The young man was reaching down to the shore, picking up small objects, and throwing them into the ocean.

He came closer still and called out “Good morning! May I ask what it is that you are doing?”

The young man paused, looked up, and replied “Throwing starfish into the ocean.”

“I must ask, then, why are you throwing starfish into the ocean?” asked the somewhat startled wise man.

To this, the young man replied, “The sun is up and the tide is going out. If I don’t throw them in, they’ll die.”

Upon hearing this, the wise man commented, “But, young man, do you not realize that there are miles and miles of beach and there are starfish all along every mile? You can’t possibly make a difference!”

At this, the young man bent down, picked up yet another starfish, and threw it into the ocean. As it met the water, he said, “It made a difference for that one.”

(This story has appeared all over the web in various forms, usually with no credit given to Mr. Eiseley. Sometimes it is a little girl throwing the starfish into the ocean, sometimes a young man, once even an elderly Indian. In any form it is a beautiful story.
Loren Eiseley was an anthropologist who wrote extensively. This is a true story. He was the ‘wise man’ in the story, and he was walking along a beach after a storm and encountered the fellow throwing the starfish back.)

Posted in Disability Advocacy, Parables, Stories and Excerpts I Wish I Had Written | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment